We treat them as though they are already there. There is no other way. Make sure you carve out enough time to have some fun. If he makes a nice dinner or fixes something around the house, let him know you care. If you make a sexual pass at him, he will feel you desire him. Or he came home too late or forgot to do something around the house. Use tender touching - even during arguments.
It was not given to you by your parents, it was loaned to you by your children. . Don't forget the art of listening. His is not a creed, a mere doctrine, but it is He Himself we have. Making your complaints and criticism specific. My behavior most likely reinforced how he felt about himself inside.
The public will not tolerate a lack of civility. Treat a man as he can and should be, and he will become as he can and should be. But I have found that when I change mine, they have to make adjustments. Don't let anybody else use it, and get a new one every six months. Men cheat sometimes simply because they want physical variety. A real man will value your personality, your kindness, your intelligence, and who you are as a person, in general. Yes, he should love you just the way you are.
Otherwise I try to treat them as I wish to be treated. Do you feel yourself falling into expected patterns of behaviour; simply because you were treat a certain way? If you treat such a person differently their life may turn in different directions. Realize he wants to feel wanted. I tried to point out their behaviors from a positive perspective so they could learn to use every aspect of themselves toward becoming a better person, rather than tell them they were bad or if they kept doing this or that it would ruin their lives. You need to find time for you as a couple without the distractions of work or children who take your emotional energy. Tell him it before you fall asleep at night or when he leaves for work.
However, if you completely let yourself go, he may be more likely to look elsewhere. Mostly it's about love, respect and kindness -- but it's also about having fun together! Unless a person is willing to make that first step themselves to improve their circumstances, no amount of encouragement, kind words, money or material things will remotely help. Address it by communicating your thoughts and feelings. If he's up set treat him as if you would treat a crying girl friend. Some women tend to over-apologize.
Cats look down on us. The things he makes you feel good about will be things that you control, not just results of getting lucky in the gene pool. Your life will never be the same again. Put him on the back burner. Whether they are our staff, our children or even in a mentorship capacity. Or try a new scent.
Be someone he turns to first when he needs help. Does it matter a lot to him if you verbalize your love? Please sign up on the form below to receive my Free Daily Inspiration - Daily Quotes email. So pick your friends carefully. If you treat a successful person as a successful person not that much will change, I think: the person may just become a little more snobbish and separated from the real challenges of life. Address it by communicating your thoughts and feelings. If he's going through a tough time at work, or he's fixated on a stressful project for a short time, show understanding about that. Treating a guy well involves doing nice things for him from time to time, so why not let yourself in on the action and plan a fun date together! Let it speak to you first.
I continually told my kids they could be anything they wanted to be if they were willing to do what was necessary to achieve their goals. There is no other way. Small touches are really important in a relationship. Better yet, make him his favorite meals now and then so he looks forward to coming home. And they also have the right to destroy themselves too. My ultimate vacation would be a cruise around the world.
Studies have shown that couples who hang out with happily married couples are less likely to divorce. Keep your marriage couple-centered as well as child centered. Yeah, some hard-hearted people will slap your hand away and spit on you for it—happens to me enough. At a previous job, management would stomp their feet and shout at their employees that they needed to be professional. Extend to them all the care, kindness and understanding you can muster, and do with no thought of any reward.
Do you feel yourself falling into expected patterns of behaviour; simply because you were treat a certain way? You could make a list of things you nag him about and cross out half of them to consciously reduce the criticism. You can never say it enough. If you do that, you will reduce the chances your man will cheat. If a man works his entire life around you, it's another red flag -- relationships should be a great part of your life, but not encompass your whole life. Does he put most importance on the amount of time you spend with him and how you spend it? Be honest to those who are honest, and be also honest to those who are not honest.