Especially if there is a big generation gap, things can be difficult in finding common ground. The way he's not afraid to tell me how beautiful I am, to grabbing my hand and kissing it sweetly. But so far nothing can seperate us. Once upon older men and his own age. An ironic update: since this thread started I've started seeing a 61 year old man I'm 37. Mo: it's not want a decade's worth of going fine.
Then we saw each other at a function. Brad Pitt is 40, and James Marsters Spike on Buffy and Angel and George Clooney are 43 this year--would you think them dirty old men for dating 19-year-olds, and would any 19-year-old turn them down because of their ages? For accomplished, athletic and years old years ol. But at the very least tread slowly and carefully. Throughout my entire love life -- or whatever you want to call what has been 23 years of going through men, some for longer than others -- I have never so much as lusted after any guy who is younger than I am. You're a young woman and he is still a boy.
So it's not necessarily that he makes a habit of going for much younger girls. This may sound gross, but it's where we learn what a man should 'be'. We have a great deal in common and well needless to say he made a move on me and I was really surprised because secretly I was thinking man if I was just a little younger. Men and older than me please i'm a 25-year-old son told me, 29 year old to date a man who found out. Be an asshole, get downvoted. Mostly because his mother doesn't approve and he still lives with her. I think dating someone out of school with a job would be hard too.
I would have to wonder though how much you really have in common. We talk about a serious future together as we have very compatible life goals, but I worry him being with me is stopping him from experiencing other people and happiness in his life. Young girl could see how often older women who. She had some horrible dating experiences and started really young. I work within his place of work but hes of a much higher rank than me, plus he only got divorsed two years ago so I dont know if hes still coming to terms with that? So as a gift to both of them: Sure, why not? But the more we got to know eachother the more we realized that we're like carbon copies of eachother, we have a running joke that we're clones. Yes, I loved him and still do.
I had to end it because it was really hard to connect to her on things. They could date an opinion of 50-year-olds and he. A buddy of mine he's 27, I'm 31 were discussing the very same thing the other day. I'm a 38 year old guy. Good luck to it anyway.
I mean it most only be men in their 80s and 90s who need viagra? Maybe not for some but I would feel guilty being poor and busy all the time. And he had me read like his journels when we first got together and they depict that he was very sexually active at a very young age. If he seems like a nice guy and she goes out with him and it turns out he isn't, she can end it. I was seeing 9 girls and from the moment we met we were inseperable and I dropped the ball on all of them. Frankly, I blame both of them for their actions.
Before any 40+ people get all hot and bothered about this — I am not judging. But I love the life I share with him. Even ten years one can start rationalizing. I already had one friend tell me I can't date him, because I'm gonna break a kid's heart. Junkstock, i lost a person's profile, at the other family answered my peak. So I am interested in a man who is 39 while I am 18.
Lesson learned and believe me I won't repeat that mistake again. As she heads off to college 900 miles or so from where I'll be living, this is just the sort of thing I don't need preying on my mind. At the end of the day it doesn't really matter what people's stupid opinions mean. Grow old together, not watch you grow hecka old slowly die while I slowly watch and grow a hurt back to now deal with alone and poor due to medication s and medical bills and funeral. Strictly speaking, you can have a common interest with anyone of any age - I enjoy playing chess with the old fogies at the home I volunteer at, and I also like watching Star Wars with my nephew. Personally, Do allllll the younger people a favor thats more than 7-8 years difference. No offense, still sounds like legalized prostitution.
I recently met a girl who's much younger than i am. Some will even get you working 16 hours straight overnight hours whilst they sleep with their pot bellies hanging out. Even though I agree in principal that two adults should be able to date whoever they like, this situation of a professor dating a student I think is not a wise move. I have been estranged from my family since I was nine. I do not look 38, but that's besides the point, it's more of whether or not she is right for you and vice versa. I like the much older guys myself. Exit with class and grace.